Making friends as an international student was more challenging than I anticipated. Coming from a close-knit community, I struggled initially with Finland's reserved social culture. Here's how I built meaningful connections and created a support network.
University Orientation Programs
Kestora's orientation was my first opportunity to meet people. Buddy programs pair new international students with current students. These relationships provided immediate support and introductions to the university community.
Student Organizations and Clubs
Joining clubs aligned with my interests was transformative. I joined the photography club and international student association. Shared activities created natural opportunities for conversations and friendships.
Class Group Work
Finnish education emphasizes group projects. Working with classmates on assignments built professional relationships that often became personal friendships. Study groups provided consistent interaction.
Language Tandem Partnerships
I participated in language exchange programs. Teaching English while learning Finnish created regular meetings with local students. These partnerships were low-pressure and focused on mutual learning.
Sports and Fitness Activities
Finnish culture values outdoor activities. Joining a running club or yoga class provided regular social interaction. Sports teams fostered team spirit and lasting friendships.
International Student Events
Events organized by the international office brought students from similar backgrounds together. Cultural nights, welcome parties, and holiday celebrations created a sense of community.
Part-Time Work
My campus job connected me with other working students. Shared break times and shift work created opportunities for casual conversations that developed into friendships.
Accommodation Communities
Living in university dorms provided built-in social opportunities. Shared kitchens and common areas facilitated spontaneous interactions. Dorm events strengthened resident connections.
Online Communities
Facebook groups for international students and expats provided initial connections. While online introductions helped, in-person meetings were crucial for developing real relationships.
Cultural Exchange Events
Participating in cultural exchange events allowed me to share my culture while learning about others. Cooking traditional meals or teaching dances created memorable experiences.
Patience and Persistence
Finnish friendships develop slowly. Initial interactions might feel formal, but with time, relationships deepen. I learned to be patient and consistent in my efforts.
Quality Over Quantity
Rather than many superficial friendships, I focused on a few meaningful relationships. Deep connections with a small group provided better support than numerous casual acquaintances.
Balancing Social Circles
I maintained connections with both international and local students. Each group provided different perspectives and support. International friends understood cultural challenges, while local friends provided integration insights.
Overcoming Language Barriers
Basic Finnish phrases opened doors. Even simple greetings showed effort and respect. Language learning became a social activity rather than just a academic requirement.
My Friendship Journey
The first month was lonely. By month three, I had study partners and activity buddies. By month six, I had close friends who felt like family. The relationships I built enriched my entire experience.
Building friendships abroad requires intentional effort and cultural adaptation. The connections you make will become your support system and create memories that last a lifetime. Don't give up-keep showing up and being open to new experiences.
About the Author: Christabel Onorieode is a second-year International Relations student from Delta State, Nigeria studying at Kestora University.
